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Thoughts on creative people, geeks, and so forth dividing their lives up

Posted by Steven Savage on December 3, 2009

I've been sharing more of my Fan To Pro posts here as I realized that a lot of you reading this, well, fit that – people with career ambitions based on hobbies and interests.

One thing I've noticed more and more is how people divide their lives up – and then feel they have no time to live their dreams. I've seen people divide life into "work" and "non-work" or some other divisions, and those are the ways they define their lives.

More on this is here

-Steve

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A bit of something from fan-to-pro and some thoughts.

Posted by Steven Savage on July 4, 2009

Networking for geeky types – how to get into it and make it fun.

Since I meet a lot of pros and hopeful pros here, this is another thing I wanted to share – tips on Networking for progeeks.

A lot of you who use this site are potential professionals or professionals, and very seriously networking – connecting with and maintaining connections with people – is invaluable for life AND your career.  It's really seriously one of the most important things you can do for jobs, friends, and your own sanity.

The problem to me really is that Networking has been considered a "business thing" because, well, the term is used in business a lot, and discussed prominently.  But really it's a life thing.  We need to connect with and keep up with people.

- Steve, aka X

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In Praise of Stupid Fun

Posted by Steven Savage on June 23, 2009

Cross-posted at Fan To Pro.

I am all for using your hobbies professionally.  Indeed, I think the ideal life is one where your hobby and job don't exist – what you'd call "hobbies" and "jobs" are so fused you just have a "life" where the things you like make you money and give you social involvement.  To me the holy grail of professional geekdom is like that – a life with no outside (or inside).

A flaw that afflicts some progeeks, and that many don't speak to, is that it's too easy to slide into the idea that just because you're a fannish professional, just because what pays your bills also is the reason you have an extensive action figure collection, that you have to take everything seriously.  In short, every "fun" thing has to be calculated to some financial benefit.

I'm here to say that's wrong on two counts.

First, just because your hobbies and jobs are fused, it doesn't mean everything has to have some kind of calculable benefit, such as a monetary value.  Many things are worth doing for non-financial reasons, and to see dollar signs in everything is to turn things into "jobs" and loose the sense of fun.

Secondly, let me also note there is a place in life for fun, and even for dumb fun.  In fact, let me praise dumb fun.

It's OK to work on epic video games then go and play a mindless game of violence and relax.  It's OK to compose brilliant reviews and news articles, then go read trashy romance manga (or even really good ones).  It's fine to enjoy your horror films before you compose that epic website.  There's no problem in having fun, even totally dumb fun.

We all need to relax, and sometimes we need to take our brains further off the hook than at other times.  Even if you live an ideal lifestyle where there's no difference between job and hobby, you need to relax and get away from your own personal rat race – even if you like the rats.

It's fine because it refreshes you and resets you, because now and then you need to step away, and you'll often find new insights.

It's OK to have fun because you can bond with people – in fact if you're a hardcore progeek (like myself), you can fall into talking "business" too much because it IS fun for you – but not necessarily for other people.

In fact, and I advise giving this a try if you're too uptight, I go out of the way to FIND dumb fun or just plain fun.  I actually find things that would be guilty pleasures and go out of my way to enjoy them (I have a weakness for shojou anime myself, especially romantic sword-and-sorcery).  This way I actually just go and ENJOY myself.

So, never let go of fun.

- Steve, aka X

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